And while I’m perfectly happy to speculate, I’m not a mind reader. Guys ask me why a woman ghosted them, and women ask me if their boyfriend is secretly gay. Zooming out for a second: People constantly ask me how the person they’re fucking or fisting or flogging feels about all the fucking or fisting or flogging they’re doing. Only one person knows how Sam feels about this “lopsided sexual arrangement,” THROAT, and it isn’t me – it’s Sam. Totally Have Reservations Over Advantage Taking But these are literally the only blow jobs I’ve received since I was a teenager. Sam knows I am not into guys and I’m never going to reciprocate, and I feel like this is probably not really fair to him. He’s a very good buddy, and I’m concerned this lopsided sexual arrangement might be bad for our friendship. My problem is I am starting to feel guilty and worry I am using Sam. Since then, Sam has blown me three more times. I was glad to get some and had no hang-ups about a guy sucking me. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with Sam and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blow job. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. I didn’t get a blow job the whole time we were together. She had a particular aversion to oral sex – both giving and receiving.
One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexual compatibility.
I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years.